Adoption - Orphan Vs Relative's baby
hannarev posted on Tue, 03/29/2011 - 12:48
After having tried for baby for quite sometime now we are planning to adopt a baby. Now we are in a dilemma whether to adopt baby from an orphanage or adopt a relative's baby.
Will be great if you could share your views regarding this.
Thanks.
If you are planning for a adoption do adopt an orphan. A baby in need will get a home and loving parents and you will get a baby.
My thinking is that if you adopt your relative's baby later in life the child may have issues if he/she comes to know of the fact and there could be some emotional issues for you, the child and the real parents. So, why to go for such a situation.
I am of the same view.
But I think adopting a relatives child will have some predictability as you are knowing the parents and I am sure you will make sure of all the required before you go ahead with adoption.
hannarev, first of all I appreciate your thought of adopting a child. Till now in our country people are still not comfortable with this thought of adoption.
There are pros and cons of adopting a relative's baby as well as an orphan. But I would recommend you to adopt an orphan as this way you would be giving a home to a child who really needs one.
Adopt an orphan.
hannarev, I really appreciate your gesture. I have also been trying for a baby if I do not have success I may also think of going your way. If possible please keep posting updates from your end.
Thanks.
Thanks a lot for your valuable inputs and support. We are planning to adopt an orphan and already in process of listing some orphanages.
hema. will update you as and when some progress is there.
All the Best hannarev.
You are doing a great thing by giving a family to a child.
Also this will help you have a happy life with pleasure of motherhood.
Congrats for taking such a great decision
All the best