Not able to concieve
snusha posted on Thu, 07/09/2009 - 11:01
I have been trying for pregnancy since last 3 years but still not successful. Have been facing a lot of abuses at my in laws place because of this. I have got all the tests done and everything is normal. Still my in laws think that I am infertile. As far as I know males can also have some problem but how do I ask my hubby to get his tests done. Please help. Has anyone faced such a problem?
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Moms out here please help me with your thoughts and exp
Hi Snusha,
It is important for you to convince your husband. Talk to him calmly and its important for both of you to understand that medicine is very advanced now and infertility is also curable.
There is no need to panic. You are right, your problem in conceiving can be due to some problem with your husband. I have a friend who faced the same issue. Her husband got a medical check-up and the problem was discovered. It was corrected through medication and she could conceive normally. Now she has a 9month old son
Hope this helps!
Shweta is so right. The problems may not always be with the woman. Men does have problems and men as well as their family need to accept it.
snusha, you have got to convince your better half. you have to find the right words to talk to him. Maybe first you can convince him to talk to the gynaecologist. The doctor will be able to help you by explaining him the technicalities.
ALL THE BEST.
Sweta & Arpitha thanks a lot for your moral boosting. After a few long discussions with my hubby I have been able to convince him to go to a doc. So, we will be visiting a doc soon
Well done snusha!!
Hope you two find a solution sooonnn..