being a lovely mom and lovely wife at the same time
lovelymom posted on Wed, 01/12/2011 - 15:56
my hubby tells me that i am a lovely mom.
according to him i used to be a lovely wife 
but i am not that lovely as a wife any more.
how many of you have been able to be a lovely wife and a lovely mom at the same time.
i am also looking for tips to be both at the same time.
you are not alone:)
many of us get similar feedback. and i am okay with that
Being a good wife that i have been fulfilling and can be one again when my son grows up.
i am happy to know that i am not alone.
but my mother says that i should balance both. she has dne it very well. but i do not believe i can do that. 24 hrs is not enough for me to take care of kids. so how can i find time to take care of hubby
but my mother says that i should balance both. she has dne it very well. but i do not believe i can do that. 24 hrs is not enough for me to take care of kids. so how can i find time to take care of hubby
Our moms were super woman I guess for me also it was difficult to be a good wife as long as both my kids grew up. Now that my younger one is 5 I can spare sometime for my hubby as well
With my full time job and 3 yr old, I can hardly find time for myself. I am waiting for my child to grow up a bit more to have some time for hubby and myself. However, one thing we both try is go on frequent weekend outings to be away from daily routine when we don't have to bother about household chores or buying groceries. This gives us rejuvenation and it helps us bond as a family also
I really want to enjoy the weekends but frankly speaking after the birth my sons I really do not remember when me and hubby sat down together talking about anything other than them. I do know whether I can be a loving mom also as I am going crazy taking care of 2 boys at a time.