Are you a perfect Mom?
desimom posted on Thu, 09/02/2010 - 11:36
My son is 2 yrs old and its really getting difficult handling him. I end up getting frustrated and scolding him. Due to frustration I do smack him and sometimes I do not get his point and I end up scolding him. I try my best to be a good mom. But things do not seem to be going the right way.
Just wondering how many of you here are good moms. Do you think you are a perfect mom?
NO one can be perfect but yes I try to do my best. I can understand what is your concern. Each of us go through this phase. But I make sure that I do not get my child affected by my tension or frustration. Whenever I am in a bad mood I try to calm down myself before I talk to my child.
Thats definitely what I keep working towards each day. But I do not think that you will get the ans when you ask my kids. So, first we need to think that do we want to be perfect on our scale or on kids scale
I have been strict with my kids but I have never lost my control. I have always tried to get things done by talking to and instructing my kids.
CANNOT THINK of becoming one.
But ya will do my best to help my kids grow up in a good person.
Its been 6 years now that I have been trying to get to perfection. But its really difficult for me to get to conclusion if I am perfect. If I want to teach right values to my child at some point I have to be strict with her. But if I am that way my child does not like me. All kids like a mom who pampers them.
So, do I want to become a mom who helps her child become a good person and ready to face the world or should one be good as per the child. I want to balance both but till now not very much successful at t hat front.
Mom for just 3 months but I try my best to be perfect. Still at night my sleep does not let me take full care of my baby
I thing as a human being one can never be perfect.
Have lost hope of becoming one. As its very difficult to manage 2 boys without loosing control. After work when I come home its very irritating to handle 2 fighting kids.
I guess I am also struggling to become a perfect mom who can always bring happiness on her child's face and in addition grow up a perfect person.
Guess each of us are struggling to be a perfect mom. And from what I understand we are not even very clear how to be a perfect mom.
With two kids I cannot even dream of being perfect
I am my kids BEST FRIEND. They do love me and trust me as of now. Though they are very young still. Lets see what happens when they grow up.