I am a mom of 2 boys and my hubby desperately wants a daughter and he wants us to try for one. In fact I would also love to have a daughter but I am not in favor having another child. I am not sure if I can handle emotionally and physically taking care of 3 children.
Am looking forward to your feedback on this front. Would know the pros & cons of this which will help me in getting to a decision.
If you ask me I will never prefer to have 3 kids in such time when life is becoming expensive day by day and I think its necessary to give proper amount to your children.
If it comes to me, one child is keeping me so busy that I cannot think of a second child. I cannot even dream of having 3rd child.
kasturi, its totally a personal preference. Before deciding for a baby one has to analyse their emotional, physical and financial capability. Gone are the days of joint family when there is a big family to support you in bringing up your child. So, be sure you can handle one more child and then go ahead with it.
I am planning for my 2nd baby and now only I am not sure how well I will be able to take care of 2 kids, I cannot even dream of having 3 children.
I have 3 children and I love them. It has never been as hard as my third child is quite younger to the other two. So, the elders has been supporting and the elder 2 just love the youngest one very much.
But definitely with less age gap between kids it could be tough job.
Its totally a personal decision and You and your hubby are the best to decide on this.
Managing a single child and job together are more than what I can handle. With the lifestyle and freedom I would need to live a peaceful and happy life, I would keep it to one child always. I have friends with two kids but beyond that it is more of personal preference and capacity(physical as well as financial).
I am going through horrible experience in my first pregnancy and I cannot expect myself going through this 2 more times.
third child in this age when expenses are touching the sky. Now when I am thinking of a second child we are still giving it a second thought with the thought of whether we will be able to manage the finances.
A 3rd child is definitely a big big responsibility emotionally, physically as well as financially. So, I would suggest you to give a serious thought on this before deciding for a third child.