A baby is typically considered a toddler as soon as he or she can walk, however social and emotional development is not so cut and dry. It should be noted that like with physical development not all children develop at the same rate. The developments listed here and there timeframes are approximate. If you child does not meet one this does not necessarily mean anything is wrong, though if a milestone is significantly behind you may want to bring it to your baby’s doctor’s attention.

Social and emotional developmental characteristics between

One and two years of age

• A desire to do things on their own and a developing sense of independence. Tantrums may result from frustration if your child fails.
• Enjoy playing alone, or beside other children but not with other children. Your child may also be possessive and not share well.
• Cannot remember the rules but crave routine.
• Are egocentric
• Have increased emotional awareness knowing when they are sad, happy, and other are too.
• Begin to show and understand fear, may have an increase desire to be with their parents.
• Have rapid mood changes.
• Are curious and active.
• Point to show desire for objects.
• Imitate animal sounds.
• Have a short attention span.

In this age range, a child is selfish, curious, rebellious and simply learning what the world is all about.

Two and three years of age

In this age range, a child begins to be less selfish, is extremely rebellious, and learns quickly. Be careful what a child at this age sees or hears, he or she is likely to repeat the action or words.